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Nothing Is Worth Dying For by Joe Goodson Exclusive to STR Name
one dictator or corrupt politician in world history who ever told his
subjects that they shouldn’t be willing to die for anything.
Name one abusive family member or aggressive relationship partner
who told his “loved ones” that they shouldn’t be willing to die for him.
I doubt you’ll find any. Everywhere
you look in both ancient and modern culture, a pervasive and widespread
popular belief dominates the land. It
is the notion that certain things in life are worth dying for.
Just listen to, watch, or read any music, movies, or books.
Catch a simple glimpse of what the churches, news media, and
politicians are cranking out. Just
look briefly, and you’ll excessively encounter “the virtue of the
ultimate sacrifice” no matter where you go.
You’ll keep hearing and tearing about it ‘til the cows come
home. But
is it really a good idea? Is
dying for something all that it’s hyped up to be?
And do any better alternatives exist? For
starters, dying for something is hugely a lose-lose scenario: both
for yourself and others. As
former Libertarian Presidential candidate Harry Browne said in an article,
“When you sacrifice your life, you give up everything.
The world has ended. What
you were no longer exists. No
more life, no more love, no more music, no more sports, no more breathing,
no more interest in anything . . . . You are no more.” What
sense does it make to die for something if you won’t be alive to
experience what you’re dying for? And
for those who survive, they will no longer come into contact with your
warmth, your beauty, your pleasant conversation, or your talents and hard
work (in person). No one can
joyously share their ideas or their passions with you in order to make their
lives better, because you are gone forever. What
if Andrew Carnegie, Bill Gates, or Mother Teresa had decided to die for
something when they were young? How
much less of a better place would the world be today? Clearly,
if you want to improve the “hive,” then your first order of business
should be to stay alive. There
is something about being six feet under that seems to make it just a tad
bit difficult to enjoy life and be productive. “But
what about taking chances to save someone’s life?” some might ask.
“How does this play into the equation?” In
this situation, if no emergency help were available, then the best course
of action would be to assess the level of risk involved.
If the danger factor of you getting killed were low (or within
reasonable limits), then attempting to save this person would be a smart
move. But if the threat to you
were high or unknown, you should put your own safety first.
How can you be totally sure that your high-risk rescue attempt will
be successful, even if you die? What
would you be dying for, then? Remember,
both of you could wind up dead if you don’t use your head.
Even firefighters and rescue workers will refuse a procedure if it
poses excessive risks to them. “But
what about all those wars fought throughout American history?” others
will inquire. “Didn’t all
those soldiers die to establish and preserve our freedom?” Well
ladies and gentlemen, contrary to what our government-run schools,
government-approved news media, and warmongering politicians have taught
us, the answer is a big, fat no. The
federal government has either provoked every war that the So
consequently, what if those millions of American soldiers hadn’t
sacrificed their lives for the agendas of the politicians?
What achievements could they have undertaken during their
lifetimes? What new medical
cures, great goods and services, and amazing forms of entertainment would
they have brought into existence if they had lived their full lives?
What if their children had a strong, loving father during their
entire childhoods? How much
difference would that have made on their lives, and their
children’s? It
has been said many times that “freedom is not free,” that liberty
carries a “price,” and I totally agree.
But the greatest threats to your personal freedom are your own
government and yourself. It
is your own government that confiscates half of your income, attempts to
micromanage every facet of your life, and puts you at risk of rogue
attacks and terrorist acts because of your regime’s insane foreign
policies. And sometimes, you
can be your own worst enemy: making unwise decisions, remaining in
situations that don’t suit you, and blaming yourself for other
people’s problems. “Freedom
is not free” in the sense that you must . . .
How
can you accomplish any of these things if you’re dead? You
see, when political leaders jabber to the maximum about the need for
people to die for something, what they really desire is to build
their own power and advance their utopian nightmares -- all at the expense
of others. Likewise, when an
abusive family member or aggressive relationship partner tells his
“loved ones” the same thing, he’s simply projecting his hopes
and dreams onto them in a blatant and barbaric fashion. My
uncle once told me that the majority of people are living their lives in
“quiet desperation”: bored with their professions, unhappy with their
personal relationships, and are simply “waiting out the years” until
they pass away. Is it any
wonder that the ultimate sacrifice has been so popular throughout human
history? If
you find yourself willing to die for a cause or for person(s), then maybe
. . . just maybe . . . you don’t love life.
Or perhaps, out of personal insecurity, you base your entire
happiness upon one single area of your life, such as a particular
relationship. Friendships,
family, and romance are awesome. They’re
meant to dramatically enhance the quality of your life, and should never
be taken for granted. But
depending solely upon them for your fulfillment is very unhealthy,
and certainly can be a burden on those you love.
If instead, you could find a decent balance between an
enjoyable career, recreational free time, and your close kinships,
then you might not feel as if your whole existence were something
“expendable.” You would
love life. You would be more
realistic and honest with yourself and with others.
Those you love would surely appreciate that! Whom
would you rather spend your life with: an insecure jerk who is eager to
die for you? Or a clean,
fun-loving, honest person who has her head on straight? Certainly, the relinquishing of one’s being is not a good idea. It does not own up to its hype, and far better alternatives bodaciously abound. (On
a side note, the best argument from the pro-personal-death-advocate camp
seems to be regarding slaves. But
in most cases, the captives’ best chance at survival, period, was an
escape attempt. If they were
shot and killed during their getaway, then the slaves weren’t committing
the ultimate sacrifice for their freedom; they were simply choosing
between two types of deaths: multiple gunshot wounds versus starvation and
exhaustion. A similar concept
also applies to terminally ill patients who select euthanasia.) In conclusion, nothing may be worth dying for, but there are plenty of intangible things in life worth fighting for and living for: fulfilling relationships, enjoyable careers, awesome music, exciting sports, recreation and relaxation, a good balance in life, strong principles rooted in reality, and the sheer joy of learning new things and exploring your surroundings. Go ahead . . . do something good for yourself and those you love. It’s healthy. It’s fun. And you just might make the world a better place because of it. Stay happy . . . and stay alive. discuss this column in the forum Joe Goodson is currently enjoying his career as a repair technician in Oklahoma City. He also likes dance-pop music, nightclubs, cruising, and gold bullion. |